Alexandra Wildfire


My attitude to BDSM

As an Alpha Female I truly relish in the D/s power exchange and treat it as a way of indulging My dominant nature. For Me the most important part of having a fulfilling D/s relation is a mental connection between Me and My slaves. I enjoy both guiding the curious novices and providing further exploration for experienced players.


The training and development of My subs focusses on the core areas of control, discipline, obedience and humiliation. My interests are wide ranging from softer sensual play to thorough and sadistic treatment – and everything in between! Whether I am feeling kind, or strict and severe; through instruction and enforcement, reward and punishment, My slaves reach deep levels of servitude as they strive to meet My demanding standards. For those interested in gaining a greater appreciation for their role, I can provide a full and structured training and development programmes.

Current Interests

I have a very inquisitive mind, I hate stagnancy and I am always on track to learn new and fascinating things – currently I am exploring erotic and fetish hypnosis.
My interests evolve constantly and I definitely like some of the edgier or more extreme things but, in general, My biggest loves include tease and denial, humiliation, corporal punishment (and with that rarest of subjects, a genuine experienced masochists, I can really let myself enjoy this!) and of course restraint.

I seek only to meet discerning intelligent and capable individuals with a desire to surrender to a beautiful and sophisticated Mistress like Me. Everything I offer is performed to the highest standard and with great attention to detail, which means that no two meetings with Me will ever be the same.


I session from a My own spacious playspace located in SW9 London, south of the river, zone two, very close to a major tube station with excellent transport links. I have a variety of equipment, including items such as: a St Andrew’s cross, spanking bench, interrogation chair, violet wand, e-stim, various canes, floggers, paddles, cuffs, spreader bars, light and heavy hoods, gags, dildos, butt plugs… and many more.

My background

I have always had penchant for the bizarre and unusual, a fascination which quickly led Me into the dark and delightful shadows of BDSM. In fact when I first started exploring my sexuality, I quickly realised just how intrinsic Femdom is to Me.

I come from Eastern Europe (land well-known for its beautiful and opinionated women!) and I have lived in England for ten years now. Luckily the move to the London enabled me to fully explore my Domme nature (and luckily for Me what a kinky city London is!). I consider the move the best decision I have ever made as somehow with My flamboyance and outspoken manner I never fit well within the small town community that I come from.

Now, for those of you that are interested in a session (or for those who have been scarred in the past by visiting a beautiful East European “Mistress” only to find that she can’t speak English) it is not the case with Me. I am articulate and well-educated, proved by obtaining a Master’s degree, completed here in England. I do understand why it’s important – after all, the mind is the most deviant organ of them all, and if your Mistress can’t understand your interests or twist your mind with deviant words, then you should look for one that can!

I started as a Pro Domme a few years ago and, unlike many, as well as drawing on my own experiences, I sought professional instruction and, as a result, I have a much greater grounding in BDSM with much wider interests than many. I also became a House Mistress at Subversion and Subversion Noir back in early 2015 – where you can find me and introduce yourself.

In addition to My kinky business I enjoy a professional and flexible freelancing career, which provides Me with all the time and space that I need as a Mistress and the ability to choose only the very few of the most interesting projects in My field – and the reason for it is simply to satiate my academic mind and provide balance to all the carnal pleasures I experience on a daily basis. After all variety is a spice of life. What that also means, is that My primary focus is a genuine desire to explore rather than the financial incentive. I am also in a position to select My slaves carefully, with personal connection and genuine rapport being the two most important factors for Me.

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